Unwind, Learn and Renew
with INTOUCHMEN
A small, thoughtfully curated comunity for men to learn and exchange massages and conscious touch, offering meaningful connection in a safe, sensually educational, and inclusive environment.
INTOUCHMEN is brought to you by Brian Riley Licensed Massage Therapist LLC
About Us.
Welcome to INTOUCHMEN—a community founded to celebrate the male body in a supportive, educational, safe space. We welcome gay, bisexual, and openly curious male-identifying individuals to apply. Together we explore the art of giving and receiving man-to-man bodywork.
We are a small, carefully curated community located in Montclair, New Jersey. Our group is clothing optional, sensually engaging, yet we are not a "SEX CLUB." We foster meaningful connections through transformative, touch-forward in-person events. At our gatherings, members can give and receive, relax, and learn together. This is your chance to put down your phone and discover what your hands are truly capable of.
Aside from our email updates and our blog, we are intentionally not focused on social media or algorithms. You won't receive constant updates or promotions on your social feeds. At intouchmen, we feel that real connection happens when you check out blog posts, show up in person, engage with other members, and get involved.
GROUP
GATHERINGS
Thursday, 7- 9 p.m
Montclair, NJ.
MEMBERS SOCIAL EXCHANGE
& MASSAGE TRADE
with Brian
We begin each gathering by exchanging consent to touch and be touched, and by asking two questions.
1. What kind of touch do I need/want today?
2. What kind of touch do I want to explore/give today?
We end each gathering by sharing our observations of the touch we experienced.
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
NOT IN OUR AREA, BUT WISH TO STAY INTOUCH?
JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST
We will keep you posted on our outreach.
Our Spaces.
WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Montclair, NJ Studio
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
PRIVATE COUPLES TUTORIAL WEEKEND
The Catskills, NY
Hillcrest Cottage
Our charming 2-bedroom retreat cottage, hosted by the traveling present, is nestled in the Catskills. This cozy retreat blends rustic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy a private hot tub with sweeping views. Here, we can spend the weekend together learning the art of couples
bodywork. A wonderful guided way to deepen intimacy.
One-on-one tutorials and more
In addition to our weekly INTOUCHMEN group gathering in Montclair, New Jersey, I also offer private touch and massage tutorials, as well as workshop design and facilitation.
Please note, prior to reaching out, that "touch" and "massage" are not euphemisms for sexual services. If you are seeking sex work—a profession I respect—please consider other providers.
All INTOUCH TUTORIALS start with a massage.
This is an opertunity for us to get familiar with eachouther, and discuss how our work will progress.
60 min - intro to tutorial massage
$140.00
TOUCH TUTORIAL
In person: you and me
A deep dive into recreational bodywork strokes, learning the where, why, and when to do them.
90 minutes
$225.00
COUPLES TOUCH TUTORIAL
In person: you, me, and a partner
A deep dive into recreational bodywork strokes, learning the where, why, and when to do them
90 minutes
$285.00
COUPLES WEEKEND TUTORIAL
IN MASSAGE AND INTIMACY
In person: you guys and me: your personal massage and intimacy guide! We will spend the weekend at our amazing Catskills retreat, hosted by the Traveling Pheasant. Doing a deep dive into touch for couples.
Arrive Friday evening, depart late Sunday afternoon.
All-inclusive, with simple food, multiple massage and intimacy tutorials, a hot tub and fire pit, and plenty of free time to explore.
$1450.00
Please know the cottage is small yet well-appointed, and we will be sharing the house; couples will have their own room with a shared bath. HAVE A LOOK
"We spent a weekend retreat with Brian, and it truly felt like finding a welcoming new home for our relationship. Our connection through touch was revitalized in ways we hadn't expected. The atmosphere was relaxed, supportive, and incredibly informative—more like being among close friends than anything else. We learned to connect through massage in wonderful, meaningful ways. We also met some fantastic people from the Catskills, and we're sure these new friendships will last a long time."
Reach out for more details. Text 917 968 2112
RETREAT AND WORKSHOP DESIGN AND FACILITATION
Have an existing group you want to spice up with a touch of training. Reach out about my customizable workshop options.
Unanimous consent and boundries will be discussed when booking. We'll also explore unanimous fluid consent work in every session. All information shared is for alternative healing and recreational touch between consenting adults and is not considered formal massage training.
Our Insights.
Please know that I discuss many topics on the blog and attempt to look closely at many styles of touch. Not everything I talk about makes it into my professional massage practice. Some things are personal reflections.
Partner with us.
Have an idea of how we can work together? Please reach out.
