About Us.
Welcome to INTOUCHMEN—a community founded to celebrate the male body in a supportive and safe space for gay, bisexual, and openly curious male-identifying individuals. Our group is dedicated to exploring the art of giving and receiving man-to-man bodywork,
We are a small, carefully curated community that fosters meaningful connections through transformative, touch-forward in-person events. At these gatherings, members can give and receive, relax, and learn together.
This is your chance to put down your phone and discover what your hands are truly capable of—beyond scrolling. Come relax and experience what true embodiment feels like.
Aside from our blog below, we are intentionally not focused on social media or algorithms. You won't receive constant updates or promotions—real connection happens when you show up, engage, and get involved with us in person.
GROUP
GATHERINGS
Thursday's 7- 9 p.m
Montclair, NJ.
MEMBERS MASSAGE TRADE
with Brian
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
Our Spaces.
WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Montclair, NJ Studio
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
PRIVATE COUPLES TUTORIAL WEEKEND
The Catskills, NY
Hillcrest Cottage
Our charming 2-bedroom retreat cottage, hosted by the traveling present, is nestled in the Catskills. This cozy retreat blends rustic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy a private hot tub with sweeping views. Here, we will spend the weekend together learning the art of bodywork for couples.
Contact us for availability and details.
One-on-one tutorials and more
IN ADDITION TO OUR INTOUCHMEN WEEKLY GROUP GATHERING IN MONTCLAIR, I ALSO OFFER PRIVATE TUTORIALS IN TOUCH AND WORKSHOP DESIGN AND FACILITATION.
TOUCH TUTORIAL
In person: you and me
A deep dive into recreational bodywork strokes, learning the where, why, and when to do them.
90 minutes
$225.00
COUPLES TOUCH TUTORIAL
In person: you, me, and a partner
A deep dive into recreational bodywork strokes, learning the where, why, and when to do them
90 minutes
$285.00
COUPLES WEEKEND TUTORIAL
Spend the weekend with me at my amazing Catskills retreat, hosted by the Traveling Pheasant.
A wonderful house with a hot tub and fire pit.
Amazing every season.
Ask for details.
RETREAT AND WORKSHOP DESIGN AND FACILITATION
Have an existing group you want to spice up with a touch of training. Reach out about my customizable workshop options.
Unanimous consent and boundries will be discussed when booking. We'll also explore unanimous fluid consent work in every session. All information shared is for alternative healing and recreational touch between consenting adults and is not considered formal massage training.
Our Insights.
Partner with us.
Have an idea of how we can work together? Please reach out.
