About Us.
Welcome to INTOUCHMEN—a consciously curated community created to celebrate the male body and touch in a supportive, educational, and sensually safe space.
We welcome gay, bisexual, and openly curious male-identifying individuals 21 and up. Together, we explore the art of giving and receiving man-to-man bodywork.
We are currently looking to expand our 55-and-up community. More information is available below.
INTOUCHMEN is located in Montclair, New Jersey. We host both clothing-optional and clothing-on, sensually engaging gatherings for men. We are not a "SEX CLUB." Instead, we foster meaningful connections through transformative, consensual, hands-on-only, touch-forward, in-person events.
At our gatherings, INTOUCHMEN are guided to give and receive, relax, and learn about bodywork together. This is your chance to put down your phone, disconnect from the digital world, and discover what your hands can do beyond scrolling.
Aside from our weekly gathering, email updates, and insightful blog, we intentionally don't focus on social media or flooding your algorithms. You won't receive constant updates or promotions on your social feeds. We believe in old-school face-to-face interaction.
WANT TO JOIN US IN PERSON?
OUTSIDE NJ AND WANT TO READ OUR BLOG?
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TEXT 917 968 2112
To get started.
We invite wellness-focused, male-identifying individuals aged 21 and older to join our consensual touch and bodywork community. Our group primarily consists of men in their late 30s to mid-50s, and we are eager to welcome new members. If you are interested, please introduce yourself and share a brief, genuine introduction about who you are and why you wish to connect with our community.
We are excited to continue our clothing-optional gatherings and are pleased to introduce a CLOTHING-ON AND MATURE TOUCH (60 and Up) series of gatherings. Our goal is to encourage more men to participate in person and foster meaningful connections.
Our vetting process starts here to ensure all members align with our community's values.
SAMPLE
GATHERING
MEMBERS SOCIAL EXCHANGE
& BODYWORK TRADE
with Brian
We begin each gathering by exchanging consent to touch and be touched, and by asking two questions.
1. What kind of touch do I need/want today?
2. What kind of touch do I want to explore/give today?
We end each gathering by sharing our observations of the touch we experienced.
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
SOMETHING NEW.
MATURE TOUCH
MEN 60 AND OVER GROUP.
OPEN HOUSE INTRO EVENT SUNDAY, 10/18 - 10 AM TO 12 NOON
TEXT FOR MORE INFO ON ATTENDING: 917 968 2112
As we age, finding opportunities for in-person social gatherings gets harder. Genuine connection and consensual physical touch are even rarer, yet our need for them remains as important as ever. Loneliness and touch deprivation are growing concerns, especially for older men.
If you are entering or enjoying your senior years and seek meaningful connection and touch within a warm, welcoming group of men your age, reach out for details on this new addition to INTOUCHMEN.
Please note that all group activities are non-sexual. If you meet someone at an event you'd like to get to know better, take your play home and explore your new touch skills together.
Text us at 917-968-2112.
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Our Spaces.
WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Montclair, NJ Studio
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
COUPLES TUTORIAL WEEKEND
Or a wonderful place to escape and practice touch.
The Catskills, NY
Hillcrest Cottage
A charming 2-bedroom retreat cottage, hosted by the traveling present, nestled in the Catskills. This cozy space blends rustic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy a private hot tub with sweeping views. Spend the weekend with me as I teach you and your partner the art of couples bodywork, or surprise a special friend with a private weekend away to explore your hands-on skills.
