About Us.
INTOUCHMEN was founded to celebrate the male body within a supportive and safe community for gay, bisexual, and openly curious men interested in
exploring man-to-man bodywork and men's body education.
Our curated group is dedicated to fostering meaningful connections through transformative touch-forward events, where members both give and receive, relax and learn. Here’s your chance to discover what your hands are capable of and what embodiment really feels like.
INTOUCHMEN group gatherings are nude, always sensual, but not sexual. We are not a sex club; we are a group of sexy, body-positive men. Please be aware that space is limited, and you must be an approved member to participate in group events.
One-on-One tutorials are available to both members and non-members. All types of men are welcome to apply. More info on this below.
Consent and boundaries in our shared connections will be discussed at every meeting. All materials will be provided—just bring yourself.
All information shared on our webpage and at our gathering is for recreational purposes only.
Founder Brian R
With over two decades dedicated to exploring the male body, I combine artistic insight with holistic wellness.
My journey began 23 years ago in a small photography studio in New York City, where I created a series of photographs of male nudes, examining the origins of our image-centric world. During this process, I realized I knew the body only from an artist’s perspective. This realization didn’t sit right with me, and it launched me deep into learning all aspects of the male body.
Now, through/with conscious, consensual touch, I guide men toward deeper self-awareness and self-acceptance. I strive to get you and your body back intouch.
My background includes a degree from The Cooper Union and The Swedish Institute for Massage Therapy. I hold certifications in Yoga, Meditation, Medical Massage, Hospice Massage, and Craniosacral Therapy.
I continue to expand my expertise through ongoing studies in men’s coaching and wellness.
I create individualized and group somatic experiences for men seeking relaxation, education, or reconnection with themselves. My goal is to help every man I work with discover the beauty and wisdom within their own body.
Our Spaces.
NEW JERSEY WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Studio NJ
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
CATSKILLS RETREATS AT
Morningwood Manor
INTOUCHMEN is excited to announce that we will be partnering with The Travled Pheasant and hosting weekend retreats starting in 2026 at MORNINGWOOD MANOR, located in the beautiful Catskill Mountains of New York. Grab your bag and get ready for some hands-on fun!
Weekly NJ.
Group Massage
Trades
Members-only gatherings
Thursday
VIP Massage exchange
7:00-9:00 pm
Montclair, NJ.
Sunday
Back to Basics
In-depth bodywork instruction
10:00 am to 12:00 pm
Montclair, NJ.
text Brian 917 968 2112
For more details
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
SOMATIC EDUCATION
ONE-ON-ONE
Experience one-on-one learning with me and expand your knowledge of the body in a supportive, educational setting. These personalized tutorials are designed to open your mind, engage your hands, and introduce you to the many areas of the male body that are often overlooked. Every session is fully consensual and guided by your comfort and boundaries. This is not a hookup; it's essential education about touch—how to give and receive it—that you may never have received. The work is most effective over multiple sessions, allowing for a deep dive into self-discovery and a richer understanding of touch and its many lessons. It is great when you and I work on each other, and it is amazing for couples with my guidance.
If you're traveling from out of town, my studio is conveniently located in beautiful Montclair, NJ, just 40 minutes from NYC. There are excellent accommodations, restaurants, gardens, and museums within walking distance, making it easy to plan a weekend retreat focused on learning and connection.
text 917 968 2112 to book or inquire.
WANT TO JOIN US AT GROUP?
BECOME A MEMBER TEXT BRIAN AT
917 968 2112
to book an intro call
INTOUCHMEN is a carefully curated group. Membership provides exclusive discounts on individual massage and wellness services, as well as access to our workshops and weekend gatherings.
Applying is free, and our weekly meetings operate on a modest dues-based system.
We encourage you to introduce yourself when reaching out. If your background aligns with our values, we will contact you promptly to set up an intro Zoom call. We look forward to learning more about you.
We are currently seeking wellness-focused men who are committed to maintaining their own health and supporting others in doing the same. Applicants must be 21 years of age or older.
We welcome all male-identifying individuals, regardless of body type.
Brian, the founder of INTOUCHMEN, also offers massage therapy services specifically tailored for men.
Learn more at BRLMT.com.
Let INTOUCHMEN come to you
Traveling Workshops
INTOUCHMEN offers hands-on workshops designed specifically for men who want to discover just how transformative their touch can be. If you’re part of a group of 6 to 10 men and are interested in hosting a massage workshop, I invite you to reach out to us. We can bring the fun to you. These gatherings are a fantastic way to deepen your group’s experience, expand your understanding of the body, and explore new dimensions of pleasure and connection.
One and two-day workshops available.
Fee discussed at booking
text 917 968 2112
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