Unwind, Learn and Renew
with INTOUCHMEN
A small, carefully curated comunity for men to learn and exchange massages and conscious touch. We offer meaningful connection in a members-only, safe, sensually educational, and inclusive environment.
INTOUCHMEN is brought to you by Brian Riley Licensed Massage Therapist LLC
About Us.
Welcome to INTOUCHMEN—a consciously curated community founded to celebrate the male body in a supportive, educational, safe space.
We welcome gay, bisexual, and openly curious male-identifying individuals to apply. Together, we explore the art of giving and receiving man-to-man bodywork.
We are located in Montclair, New Jersey. Our group is clothing optional, sensually engaging, yet we are not a "SEX CLUB." We foster meaningful connections through transformative, touch-forward in-person events. At our gatherings, members can give and receive, relax, and learn about bodywork together. This is your chance to put down your phone and discover what your hands are truly capable of.
Aside from our email updates and our blog, we are intentionally not focused on social media or algorithms. You won't receive constant updates or promotions on your social feeds. At intouchmen, we feel that real connection happens when you check in on our blog posts, show up in person, engage with other members, and get involved.
GROUP
GATHERINGS
Thursday, 7- 9 p.m
Montclair, NJ.
MEMBERS SOCIAL EXCHANGE
& MASSAGE TRADE
with Brian
We begin each gathering by exchanging consent to touch and be touched, and by asking two questions.
1. What kind of touch do I need/want today?
2. What kind of touch do I want to explore/give today?
We end each gathering by sharing our observations of the touch we experienced.
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
NOT IN OUR AREA, BUT WISH TO STAY INTOUCH?
JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST
We will keep you posted on our outreach.
Our Spaces.
WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Montclair, NJ Studio
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
COUPLES TUTORIAL WEEKEND
Or a wonderful place to escape and practice touch.
The Catskills, NY
Hillcrest Cottage
A charming 2-bedroom retreat cottage, hosted by the traveling present, nestled in the Catskills. This cozy space blends rustic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy a private hot tub with sweeping views. Spend the weekend with me as I teach you and your partner the art of couples bodywork, or surprise a special friend with a private weekend away to explore your hands-on skills.
Our Insights.
Please know that I discuss many topics on the blog and attempt to look closely at many styles of touch. Not everything I talk about makes it into my professional massage practice. Some things are personal reflections.
Partner with us.
Have an idea of how we can work together? Please reach out.
