Unwind, Learn and Renew
with INTOUCHMEN
A small, carefully curated comunity for men to learn and exchange bodywork and conscious touch. We offer meaningful connection in a members-only, safe, sensually educational, and inclusive environment.
INTOUCHMEN is brought to you by Brian Riley Licensed Massage Therapist LLC
confirmed members
See workshops and gatherings, read our INTOUCHMEN BLOG, get discounts on bodywork treatments with BRLMT
About Us.
Welcome to INTOUCHMEN—a consciously curated community founded to celebrate the male body and touch in a supportive, educational, sensually safe space.
We welcome gay, bisexual, and openly curious male-identifying individuals 21 and up to apply. Together, we explore the art of giving and receiving man-to-man bodywork.
We are located in Montclair, New Jersey. Our group is clothing optional, sensually engaging, yet we are not a "SEX CLUB." We foster meaningful connections through transformative, consentual, touch-forward, in-person events.
At our gatherings, members are guided to give and receive, relax, and learn about bodywork together. This is your chance to put down your phone, get off the grid, and discover what your hands can truly do in real time.
Aside from our email updates and insightful members' blog, we intentionally don't focus on social media or flooding your algorithms. You won't receive constant updates or promotions on your social feeds. We believe in old-school face-to-face interaction.
GROUP
GATHERINGS
Thursday, 7- 9 p.m
Montclair, NJ.
MEMBERS SOCIAL EXCHANGE
& BODYWORK TRADE
with Brian
We begin each gathering by exchanging consent to touch and be touched, and by asking two questions.
1. What kind of touch do I need/want today?
2. What kind of touch do I want to explore/give today?
We end each gathering by sharing our observations of the touch we experienced.
What Guys are Saying.
Alex 25, CA
"I had never seen anything like INTOUCHMEN before. When I reached out to them, Brian explained that the group mostly consisted of men in their late 30s and older. I'm 25, so I was a bit nervous. But wow, I am so happy I took the leap. What I discovered was not only body awareness and confidence but also a community of mentors and friends."
Jim 52, NY
"WOW, WOW, WOW! All I can say is that I've finally found a group of caring and kind men who are genuinely interested in helping each other discover the power of touch. Brian made our workshop enjoyable, fun, and incredibly educational. The N.J. space is beautiful, filled with art, and super convenient to reach; I loved that they have parking available."
Bill 46, MI
"I was nervous about attending since I am a working professional in the area. When I learned that the first rule of touch club is that no one talks about touch club, I felt a bit more at ease. It's like a yoga studio where all the ladies have been replaced by eager-to-learn men who want to connect. I had a blast, felt at home, and realized that I love being naked with like-minded men."
WANT TO JOIN US AT INTOUCHMEN?
BECOME A MEMBER TEXT 917 968 2112
To get started.
We are currently seeking wellness-focused, male-identifying individuals aged 21 and older to join our comunity. WHEN you first text us, introduce yourself, be human, and make us want to reach back out to you. At different times, we are seeking different types of men to join us, so take a chance and see what happens.
SOMETHING NEW.
MATURE TOUCH
MEN 55 AND OVER GROUP.
As we age, it becomes harder to find opportunities for in-person social gatherings. Genuine connection and physical touch are even rarer—yet our need for them remains as important as ever. Loneliness and touch deprivation are growing concerns, especially for older members of the LGBTQI community. If you are entering or enjoying your senior years and want meaningful connection and touch in a warm, welcoming group of men your age, reach out for details on this new addition to INTOUCHMEN. Text us at 917 968 2112
NOT IN OUR AREA, BUT WISH TO STAY INTOUCH?
JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST
We will keep you posted on our outreach.
Our Spaces.
WORKSHOPS AND TRADE NIGHTS
The Montclair, NJ Studio
Our intimate, art-filled studio is located in Montclair, NJ. Here, we regularly come together to learn about, explore, and connect with our bodies in a safe and welcoming environment.
COUPLES TUTORIAL WEEKEND
Or a wonderful place to escape and practice touch.
The Catskills, NY
Hillcrest Cottage
A charming 2-bedroom retreat cottage, hosted by the traveling present, nestled in the Catskills. This cozy space blends rustic charm with modern comforts. Enjoy a private hot tub with sweeping views. Spend the weekend with me as I teach you and your partner the art of couples bodywork, or surprise a special friend with a private weekend away to explore your hands-on skills.
Partner with us.
Have an idea of how we can work together? Please reach out.
