HOW TO MOVE HIS JING....

Today, I want to talk about taking a non-sensual approach to working on your partner’s erogenous zones. Some of the most amazing massage experiences I have had involve a partner massaging the super sensitive areas of my body in a way that focuses on releasing stress energy, not sexual energy. Yes, there is a way to massage the cock, balls, and ass in this way.

What do I mean by “non-sensual”? In this context, it means focusing on relaxation, energy movement, and tension release rather than creating sexual arousal. This can be a powerful way to connect, heal, and explore intimacy beyond sex.

How do you do this? Intention is the starting point. In traditional Chinese medicine, it's said that your energy (Qi) follows your intention (Yi). Setting a clear intention for relaxation and healing helps both you and your partner stay focused on the non-sensual aspect of the massage.

Think about it this way: when you clear stagnation from an area, you open it to a better flow of energy. Opening and relaxing the area around the cock is a wonderful place to start. One great technique is to take a warm (not hot!) towel and wrap your partner’s cock in it. Use a second towel on top to keep the deep warmth in. This increases blood flow to the area. Let the warmth stay for at least two minutes, switching towels if needed to keep them warm. I always test the towel against my face first to make sure it’s not too hot—we want warmth, not burns.

Once the blood flow is open, remove the towel and use broad, circular motions with flat hands around the cock and balls. Gently lift and move the entire package—do not stroke the shaft. Instead, move the entire organ and testicles together in gentle, all-direction motions. This helps relax the area and encourages energy flow without focusing on arousal.

When you begin the massage, pick a pattern and rhythm to follow. In this case, use flowing circles and the movement of your partner’s cock and balls. For example, move slowly to the right for four strokes, then reverse and move to the left for four strokes. The first time you perform this sequence, your partner’s system lights up—he feels the movement and his nervous system responds. The second time, his brain starts to recognize the pattern. The third time, he settles into the sensation. By the sixth or seventh repetition, he’s deeply relaxed, and the benefits register. But after about 7 repetitions, the receiver’s mind may start to resist the repetition, so it’s important to switch to a new move. Finding the balance between repeating a stroke enough times for relaxation and moving on before it becomes monotonous is key to a wonderful bodywork connection.

Now that the area around your partner’s cock and balls is open, slide one finger down the perineum (the area between the genitals and anus) and into the creases between the legs and inner thighs. This area is important to open because, in traditional Chinese medicine, it’s believed to hold Jing—your essence or vital energy.

Semen is considered a physical manifestation of Jing (vital life force). Traditional teachings say that ejaculation can deplete this energy. By opening up this area, you help move Jing throughout the system. When your partner is ready to explore sexually, his life force will be stronger and more available.

Give it a try and report back with your findings.