Last night’s Men’s Massage Exchange

Last night’s Men’s Massage Exchange at InTouchMen was an absolute blast! There’s nothing quite like coming together with a group of open-hearted guys, letting go of our clothes and our worries, and sharing the power of touch. The energy in the room was warm and welcoming, especially with a new friend joining us. He jumped right in, bringing a strong, confident touch to the group and blending in with ease after a few simple pointers.

I love watching how, as guys rotate partners, their hands and touch begin to open up naturally—each exchange deepening their connection and skill. My favorite way to guide newcomers is to let them explore and play at their own pace, offering gentle tips only when they’re ready. It’s a relaxed, fun way to learn, and our regular trade nights are the perfect space for slow, joyful growth.

Of course, workshops are a great place to dive even deeper—there’s always time for demos, questions, and exploring all the ins and outs of every stroke. Last night, I did a quick “speed round,” showing three foundational strokes that hold the essence of massage. They might look simple, but the more you experiment, the more these strokes reveal their endless depth and power.

For me, teaching massage is a lot like martial arts: master the basics, practice them together, and you’ll keep discovering new layers every time. Here’s to many more fun, connected nights at InTouchMen!

After our time at the table last night, we shifted our energy by all standing and working together as a group. Standing up, re-engaging with our bodies and feeling the energy flowing, more relaxed, more charged, and definitely more erect.  It was an amazing feeling and one of the most beautiful manifestations of male energy flowing naturally, I know.

Thanks again to all the members I got to stroke! Aware, engaged, conscious, consensual touch is a beautiful thing.