We are excited for our first retreat.

We are excited to introduce our upcoming Eros Massage Exchange Retreat, a unique opportunity to explore the powerful connection between self-touch, partnered massage, and embodied energy. Self-touch is a wonderful way to reduce stress and reconnect with your body, while receiving a massage can be equally transformative. When these practices are brought together, a new level of magic and discovery unfolds.

Many men seek a “happy ending” during a massage, but at its heart, this desire is about energy. When we settle into our bodies, relax our nervous systems, and allow our life force to flow, it’s natural for men to experience arousal. For example, “morning wood” is a sign of healthy energy flow. Yet, the stresses of life can profoundly affect this system, and unconscious habits—like rushing from arousal to ejaculation—can train our bodies to miss the subtle energies available to us. Our retreat offers a space to slow down, become more aware, and experience the full spectrum of arousal and relaxation.

Relaxing into self-touch is essential, both on your own and with a partner. Massage helps get the blood and energy moving, creating a foundation for deeper pleasure and connection. Imagine receiving an incredible massage, but instead of immediately releasing your energy, you allow your body to simply feel, flow, and integrate the sensation. Later, when you return home, you might enjoy a beautiful self-touch session or share intimacy with a lover, deepening your experience. The results can be truly transformative.

Expanding how you use the energy of massage is vital—both as a giver and a receiver. At our INTOUCHMEN Eros events, I encourage participants to practice self-touch even while giving and receiving a massage. You’ll notice that raising your own energy can be transferred directly to your partner, enhancing the experience for both of you. Conscious, clear communication is central to this work, creating safety and trust.

We’re thrilled to announce that INTOUCHMEN Men will be hosting our first Eros

Massage Exchange Retreat at Morningwood Manor soon. If you’re interested in joining, reach out for more details. This immersive event will cover the ins and outs of this exciting and transformative practice, offering hands-on guidance and a supportive community.