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We are excited to introduce our upcoming Eros Massage Exchange Retreat, a unique opportunity to explore the powerful connection between self-touch, partnered massage, and embodied energy. Self-touch is a wonderful way to reduce stress and reconnect with your body, while receiving a massage can be equally transformative. When these practices are brought together, a new level of magic and discovery unfolds. Many men seek a “happy ending” during a massage, but at its heart, this

Last night’s Men’s Massage Exchange at InTouchMen was an absolute blast! There’s nothing quite like coming together with a group of open-hearted guys, letting go of our clothes and our worries, and sharing the power of touch. The energy in the room was warm and welcoming, especially with a new friend joining us. He jumped right in, bringing a strong, confident touch to the group and blending in with ease after a few simple pointers. I love watching how, as guys rotate partner

We had an incredible men’s group massage exchange last night at INTOUCHMEN! Even though there were snow flurries outside, spring is in the air, and it's fantastic to see men coming together again. We created a powerful, supportive space full of conscious touch, laughter, and genuine connection. As always, the collective energy in the room was beautiful. Every man stayed present and engaged, helping guide us all into a state of deep relaxation and bliss. Even with eight men in

As I doomscroll through the algorithm, I sometimes feel overwhelmed and confused by everything I see. For a moment, I even wondered: Am I doing what I should be? Am I working hard enough to make a positive impact on the world and the people around me? So, I took some time to reflect. In that quiet space, I realized the answer is YES. For all of my adult life, I’ve walked a path that’s entirely my own—guided by creativity, a quest for beauty, and a deep desire to understand my

Last night, I went to a sex party in NOLA called Hit It. A fun group of sexy men hosts this party a few times per year, and if I’m in town, I always check it out. This one was in a smaller venue, and it was cold outside, but that didn’t stop the boys from showing up. I find the energy at these kinds of events often lacks sensuality, focus, and any real effort beyond providing a dark room for people to mostly wander around awkwardly. Yes, there’s sucking and fucking going on,

How can self-touch be integrated into partnered touch during man-to-man sensual bodywork? Our journey with touch begins in infancy, often in the care of caring hands. As we grow older, however, touch becomes more complicated—layered with societal expectations and personal insecurities. These complexities can cloud our understanding of self-touch, making it harder to embrace its power for self-care and energy exploration. But what if we could bring self-touch into the realm of

Eros bodywork is more than just a massage; it is a shared experience where every moment, from the first conversation to the final touch, carries meaning and pleasure. The idea of a “happy ending” often gets all the attention, but the true joy lies in the entire journey. Each part of the session should feel good—the meeting, the undressing, the first touch, the warm oil, and the discovery of new erogenous zones. What makes this experience truly successful is open communication

Meeting other men and creating a space where we can relax, learn, and explore our bodies is more important than many realize. The journey into sensuality and trust through touch is not just about physical connection; it’s about building a community that supports each other in reducing stress and deepening self-awareness. This group depends entirely on the participation of its members, and as the motivator, my role is to create a fun, curated container where we can all safely

If you are a man curious about exploring the power of touch or already part of INTOUCHMEN, this workshop is designed just for you. On Saturday, January 17, we invite you to dive into an engaging, hands-on experience that will introduce you to six basic INTOUCHMEN bodywork techniques. This workshop offers a unique chance to become comfortable with your body and hands, learning through both giving and receiving touch in a supportive environment. Why This Workshop Matters Many m

My journey into understanding the male body began with art—painting and photography. What started as a simple passion for capturing the male form soon revealed a deeper curiosity. After one photo shoot, I realized I had no real understanding of the body beyond its surface appeal. That moment sparked a 20-year exploration of the male body, its meaning, and its connection to wellness. Now, I return to photography with a fresh perspective, offering personal photo shoots for the

Touch is one of the most basic ways humans connect and heal. Yet, for many men, the experience of touch remains limited or misunderstood. I have spent over 20 years working with men through bodywork, learning how powerful and transformative touch can be when approached with openness and respect. My goal has been to create a calm, playful, and sensual environment where men can explore touch without pressure or confusion. This post shares why men’s massage and bodywork deserve

Exploring the desire to connect physically with another man can feel confusing when you have identified as heterosexual your entire life. Yet, this yearning is more common than many realize. At INTOUCHMEN, we believe that touch between men is a natural, enriching experience that goes beyond traditional labels. This post explores how men can safely and joyfully explore their bodies and emotions through men's bodywork, tantric massage, and men's massage, all within a space of

I’ve spent years exploring different healing practices, from yoga to touch therapies, always seeking spaces where people can genuinely connect with themselves and others. Along the way, I noticed a troubling trend: the rise of toxic positivity, the pressure to share feelings on demand, and wellness "coaches" or group facilitators who overstep their roles. These trends often do more harm than good, especially when they try to force emotional experiences or impose their own ide

Erections are a natural part of the male body’s response system. Yet, many men feel awkward or uncertain about them. At INTOUCHMEN, we believe that getting hard should never be an issue or a source of shame. Understanding how erections work and embracing them as a normal, beautiful part of male anatomy can change the way men relate to their bodies and to each other. Celebrating the natural state of the male body How Erections Work in the Male Body The male penis becomes erect

When it comes to men's massage, tantric massage, or sensual massage for men, one factor stands above all: clear communication and consent. Without this foundation, what should be a relaxing and enjoyable experience can quickly become uncomfortable or even unsettling. Both the giver and receiver of touch must openly share their preferences and boundaries to keep the session respectful, fun, and aligned. Why Communication Matters in Men's Bodywork Men’s bodywork involves physic

When I first started exploring men's body work and massage, I quickly realized how diverse men's bodies truly are. We often hear about body types—ectomorph, mesomorph, and endomorph—but what do these terms really mean? More importantly, how can understanding these types deepen our appreciation for the beauty of diversity in men's bodies? At INTOUCHMEN, we celebrate this variety by encouraging hands-on experience with different body types. Moving from massaging an endomorph’s

When men reach out to me as a massage educator, one of the first things I notice is how they ask for touch. Some want sensual or tantric massage, while others immediately request sexual or erotic bodywork. This difference is more than just a preference—it reveals what they truly seek and whether I can meet their needs. Understanding the distinction between sensual touch and sexual exploration is essential for anyone interested in men's wellness and sexual wellness. It helps s

When I was invited by a well known sex focused men's group in New York City to lead a workshop on men's bodywork I decided to take a different approach. Instead of emphasizing sexual touch, I wanted to explore how touch could deepen connection and healing beyond physical intimacy. What happened next surprised everyone. The workshops sold out quickly, and the men who attended were amazed by the power their hands held—not just for pleasure, but for communication, relaxation, an

Nudity in a group setting can feel intimidating, especially for men who often carry insecurities about their bodies and penis size. At INTOUCHMEN, we understand these feelings deeply. Many men hesitate to be naked around others because of self-consciousness, but our experience shows that embracing vulnerability in a supportive environment can transform those fears into confidence. Cardboard boxes travel on a conveyor belt within a warehouse, highlighting an effective packagin

When you enter an INTOUCHMEN gathering, your eyes immediately scan the room. You notice the men around you and start imagining how their touch might feel. You might already decide who you think you will enjoy receiving a massage from and who you won’t, all before their hands even make contact with your skin. This natural tendency to judge by appearance or vibe can limit your experience. What often happens next is surprising: the person you least expected becomes the source of